Friday, 15 April 2022

Forsaken



"Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?"

"My God, My God, Why have you forsaken me?"

The figure on the cross among many cried out, feeling more alone than he had ever done before. Despite the crowds below and the others being crucified around, that moment was just him in his agonising pain and his emptiness. 

His followers and friends were scattered - whilst loyal, they were fearful and they were standing well back. The questions of a future without their leader were racing around their heads. 

The ones who were closer were the ones who wanted to see the death, they were the ones who condemned him to death, this was normal life - this was their role - their role was to stand by and watch and wait. 

And the one who was always closest - Father God - seemed further away than he had ever been before. In fact, he seemed absent. 

But as Jesus hung alone on that cross, the world began to shift. 

I have spent Holy Week in Covid isolation and inevitably I've been reflecting on what it means to be lonely. The week has been a complete change of pace, moving from 'how on earth am I going to get this done' to 'what do I do when all of this has been taken away'. It's been a week where I have been cared for deeply, and have had the chance to rest that I was waiting for but didn't expect for another three weeks. It's been a week where I've had time to begin to reflect on the last two years, have got over some fears that I had before, and have learnt to let go and trust. Someone wrote on a comment on a facebook post that perhaps this was an answer to an unspoken prayer, and whilst I'd like to think it wasn't (and those covering for me would say 'no way'), there is something about this weeks journey that that comment resonates with. 

It's also a week when I have had more time to focus on the news, and in particular the stories that people have been telling in response to Partygate (where the government have now (finally) been fined for breaking the law during lockdown). 

The stories that people are telling are stories of grief, stories of pain, stories of agony, stories of loss and abandonment, stories of guilt. They tell of the struggle to say goodbye to a dying relative over the phone, the last time they saw their Mum, their Dad, their child from the driveway through a window. They tell of the funerals where only one or two people attended, had to say goodbye in the graveyard and went on their way. They tell of the fear of travelling 100 miles to a funeral and being arrested on the way. They speak of the guilt now felt that if the government were having parties, that a little wake might have been OK, and by not having one they let their lost loved one down. They tell the stories of no funeral at all. The accounts of nurses and doctors and teachers who would have loved to do what the government did, but instead they had kettles and fridges and staffrooms taken away and went home to take off their clothes into the washing machine and shower before they could go anywhere near the vulnerable family members within. They tell the stories of everyone who felt they were 'in this together' when the ones who were promoting this idea were definitely not. 

And there are many more stories unsaid. 

The loneliness of sickness and death in lockdown, of difficult situations and mental health crises, of no human touch, of lacklustre zoom celebrations, of forsakenness, of dealing with grief alone, it leaves a wound that has been opened before it had time to heal in the parties of those who were setting the example, leading the way.... and as the wounds weep, the collective groaning is sounding in our ears. 

As we walk through Jesus' journey to the cross on Good Friday, that groaning is in each footstep he takes, each movement of the nail in his hands, each cry out in agony that comes from his mouth. 

On Good Friday, we remember the lonely figure of Jesus, abandoned on that cross, and we see someone who understands and whose voice and actions speak deeply into the grief and forsakenness we feel today.

On that cross Jesus knew what it was like to die alone.

On that cross Jesus knew what it was like to feel like he had been let down. 

On that cross Jesus knew what it was like to carry all the guilt and sins of the world. 

On that cross Jesus knew what it was like to have everything stripped away. 

On that cross Jesus knew agonising pain through his body and his mind. 

But on that cross Jesus knew that whatever it was like right now, as the wounds weep, the healing has already begun. 

On Good Friday, as all the questions and the stories and the brokenness hang in the air, know that Jesus understands. 

On Good Friday, as the world begins to shift, and amongst the broken, there begin to be little glimmers of something better, know that the way things are right now are not the way things will always be. 

On Good Friday know that in the struggles you face right now, that God has not abandoned you, in fact he is here, in the struggle, facing it head on alongside you. And because he is with you in the struggle, this constant uphill battle won't be forever, because Good Friday leads us on a journey to Sunday and the victory.... it's already won. 


 

Thursday, 14 April 2022

Breaking Bread


And the Word became flesh and moved into the neighbourhood. And the Word brought bread (borrowed from another!) - five loaves, seven loaves, distributed to thousands, never running out. And the Word brought bread, himself the bread, promising that hunger would be no more and that however much bread you ate you wouldn't need to worry about being thirsty from the clartyness of the bread (or something like that) because the bread the Word is, it's the bread of life. 

And the Word sat at a table surrounded by his friends and followers, and he took the bread that sat in front of him, and he broke it, saying 'this is my body broken for you', and after supper he took the cup - the wine in the cup symbolising the blood that would be shed as the bread of life was broken, not broken to be scattered and signify an ending, but broken, to bring healing and restore all that was broken before. 

When the Word became flesh and moved into the neighbourhood, he dwelled amongst people who were struggling to find light. He dwelled in the places where hunger was evident and needs were unmet. He dwelled in a world that needed far more than it received, and in his dwelling, he was able to show and bring life. 

As we're called to gather at the table to share a meal, as we break bread and wine as part of that meal, we find the presence of the Word amongst us. We find in the stories that we tell and the life that we share, that the bread of life is amongst us - he dwells, he feeds, he satisfies, he brings life. 

On Maundy Thursday this story becomes so poignantly our story as we gather in community and share food. Every time we gather as equals, not just on this day, but as companions around the table, this story, we hold onto as ours. The story of Maundy Thursday calls us to a community where brokenness is evident but the smell and sounds of restoration are in the air. Each person at the table brings their own story - from the one who is doubting, to the one who is lost, to the one who is ready to sell everything for the shine of silver coins, to the one who will deny any of it ever happened, to the one who kneels on the floor and washes the feet. 

This Maundy Thursday story belongs to all those who rarely find a place at the table (and those who are often there too), for the table where the Bread of Life dwells has room for all who choose to make the story their own. It is a place where the homeless find a home, where the hungry are satisfied, where the unloved find abundant love, where the lonely are welcomed into community and where the broken scattered pieces of the shattered parts of life find a place to be brought together and made more beautiful than they ever have been before. It is a place where the story of how life in all its fulness is made possible is laid down in the symbols of the broken bread and wine and it reminds us that however lonely we feel we have a place to belong. 

In this dwelling at the table, this room in the neighbourhood, where the Bread of Life both presides and kneels before us, we hear a call to bring something of what he brings. In uniting our own stories with this story at the table we hear a call be a community that commits to gathering around a table that offers the welcome that the Maundy Thursday table brings. In our offering we are called to serve; in our blessings we are called to give; in our wholeness we are called to break; in the darkness, we are called to bring light; in our neighbourhood, we are called to dwell.